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First I would like to say I really admire you for the way you have adapted to this country and the way you handle life in general. You seem to be a very smart person and hard worker and are following a hobby that you truly enjoy. I would be very cautious with this guy and always have some sort of protection close by either gun, club, pepper spray or what ever means you have to protect yourself in case he tried something else. It sounds like he is infatuated with you and may have brought the guy by to show him his lady friend although that is not the case. I know it is an awkward situation for you but you really need to end this before it keeps escalating. You will have to be polite but be honest and don't stutter when you tell him that he is making you uncomfortable by just dropping by and bringing someone you don't know onto your property and infringing on your privacy. It makes it a lot harder with him being older and of the opposite sex. You didn't say how old he is or if he is married and has family. The BO is also hard but needs to be brought to his attention. Good luck and be cautious and protect yourself, Joe
This. You have the right to your property and your person. Get yourself a firearm. Learn to use it. Wear it.
We are going through a situation with a family friend. He husband died a year ago, and her father died about 5 months ago. She ran into a guy at her dads funeral that worked for her husband. When he found out he was dead, he started hitting on her.
At first, she wasn't concerned. Then he started calling. The showing up at her house. Then he showed up in the parking lot at her church. She kept saying no.
The upshot is last week he tried to kidnap her. I'm dead serious. The cops have zero doubt he was going to rape her, as he grabbed her with a mask over his face and a voice altering device to change his voice.
She was lucky to get her pepper spray out of her coat pocket (a purse is a bad place to keep it...and I told her she needed to buy a gun...the wife and I offered to take her to the range, help her find a carry weapon and teach her to use it but she opted for the pepper spray) and got away from the bastard and got the cops involved. In his car they found other stuff that pointed to a rape.
So the bastard goes to jail. With a pretty high bail (I don't know the exact number but I was told it was up there, like a million dollars but I'm not sure if it was that high) and guess who this bastard calls to bail him out? From almost two hours away!
His sorry assed pastor, who was the pastor of my friends church before he moved. I've met the pastor. We didn't see eye to eye on most everything, and he's a little pussy. And yet and still, he bailed this criminal out, and says he's innocent!! This pastor (a nominal Christian) is defending his criminal (another nominal Christian) buddy!!
Judge them by their fruit, not their words.
Protect yourself. Preferably with a firearm you are comfortable with.
Tell this clown to hit the road. And never come back.
