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That's heartbreaking, sorry to hear.
Hope you someday reunite with them.

I don't know. It's been an ongoing thing that started over the fact that we didn't have $300 to loan my step daughter one Christmas. She said we'd never see the grandchildren again. That was a tick over ten years ago. We don't even know where they are and we were raising two of them at one point.