Steering coupler..how do I get the thing back together ?

What year? may be a truck coupler that's almost square and isn't the right one. I had a 65 Dart that had the wrong coupler on it, the "spring" that holds the "shoes" out wouldn't go in, had to get a new coupler to get it back together.
Also,You may have them orientated in the wrong direction.
No, it's the correct one. It is the same as the one that came with car.
I have tried them in all possible ways and they just won't go in.
Thanks.