Bullheaded wife/Covid

I am having a similar issue with my wife and daughter (but not quite to the same degree)

I am strugling to get them to put aside their “I want” bias and start to think “I need” instead.

“I want to see my friends” isn’t good enough right now. “I need to put aside my wants and protect my family” is the right approach.

“I want” is selfish...”I need” is protective.