This is bugging the crap out of me....
My wife works at a care facility. I saw a recommendation to remove anyone you care about from these types of facilities and take them home.
No visitors are allowed, only employees right now. I asked what they are doing to screen employees. 'Taking their temperature' she says. I told her that has proven to be relatively ineffective. I asked if the employees are wearing masks. 'No, they don't have enough' is the answer. I told her she needs to wear a mask while is there. She calls her boss and the mask request is denied. Then I tell her to forget the money and do not enter that building without a mask. She calls her boss back and gets an ok for a mask, but the employer will not supply it. I tell her 'just quit'.
She freaks out and I become the 'problem'. She says I am trying to tell her how to live. I tell her the facility is making their problem (no masks), her (our) problem. Now she rejects anything I say. I am very high risk. I ponder her and her precious job will kill me. So I thought about it and then I told her do anything she wants...I don't care anymore because I'm not going to live that long anyway. But really I am so angry I can't even look at her right now.
