Flickering head lights, what am I missing

Fuel Pump, electric fan all on relays
There's the most likely cause - assuming its only at slow idle speed.
Voltage is rising and falling because the alternator can't supply that much power at 14ish Volts.
So voltage drops down until it equals battery voltage.

Bring the rpms up, or increase the load and it will stabilize.
Don't do that second test for a long time.