Drive motor on Mastercraft MIG welder stopped working.

So drive motor works with 12V applied direct from power source (car battery).
So that leads me to circuit board and relay. I am NOT electrically inclined AT ALL. Relay clicks when trigger is pulled. Relay is 4 pin(see pics) but not sure where to put test leads to check? There is no layout printed on side of relay?
So I figured I would move on to the wire speed controller (potentiometer).
#'s on it B470K.
I checked for resistance with motor speed at lowest setting with test leads(see pics)on outer and inner connections near zero 20200329_153920.jpg 20200329_153920.jpg ohms.
Then dialed switch to max with leads in same position. 469k ohms.
Switched leads to connections. Readings were opposite. From what I've watched/read this is good?
Any ideas how to test relay? The relay appears to be obsolete, but found a "similar" one on ebay. Dont want to order one if that's not the problem.
Thanks
Steve

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