Unexplainable Transmission Stutter... help?

Was just reading thru your other thread dartin for divorce. It seems you’ve got someone knowledgeable helping so what I put may be frivolous. Just what my initial reaction was to video. The being “normal” in reverse throws a wrench in things. But it can’t “hurt” to do some basics I guess. Wasn’t trying to lead you down a path.

Most definitely agree with the basics all the help I get is appreciated and it's never a bad thing to double/triple check things. I do have a friend helping me and he is super smart.(he may not claim me as a friend anymore after this car and the little problems it gives us lol). It's just something that has us both stumped currently. I'm sure he could figure it out but hes not always here and I need to do my homework to at least be of some help when he is here :) that's only fair I think.

I always ask here still thinking maybe someone has run into or had the same type of problem/delima before. It would be awesome if I could get something fixed and then when he gets here just let him enjoy riding in the car he has been helping with, instead of us having to chase little problems:(. This is all good for me though, I'm learning so much from everyone on this site.

As always, I appreciate everyone and their help.