and the exact same thing happened to me Rusty...i bought my springs from Laura (Espo?) and asked for stock height.I think she second guessed me and sent 1" over which made the car sit too high.
I lowered mine by making new front mounts and drilling the spring hole 1" higher to lower the car.
I believe it was 3 1/2" square stock with 3/16" wall thickness...a perfect fit for our mopar springs.

I traded for mine with a member here who was gracious enough to see I needed springs. I knew they over the XHD ride height already and tried them. They looked cool, but for practical reasons, I used some 1" blocks and now it sits perfect.