You are not defensive. Definitely frustrated. As I said, you have Big block on the brain. But as I said earlier at one point you hit your limit and need a reset. If I want to keep what I have reset is motor out of the car, motor turns into motor parts. No other direction for me. The oil pressure is telling me it's about to go bad. Not worth it. Some days your the bug, other days the windshield....
JW