Im in a jam.....

If you look around you can find the bosch type I'm talking about. Some of them have heavier terminals. Trouble with a horn relay they are not continuous duty, although I realize this is not exactly a "continuous duty" application. Also I have no idea what the current rating of horn relays are. I'd sooner gamble on a Mopar starter relay instead.

This here is the heavy duty setup I was referring to. Maybe you can get somewhere from this

IZTOSS? 4 Pin Car Auto Relay 24v 80A with Bosch Style S Relay Harness Socket 5-Pack [3Qshs0113380] - $33.99

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