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... That really leaves us females out in the cold. I have even wondered if I myself am going to heaven because it's for men only...

Nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to read the bible, start with the gospel of Mathew. Get a bible with Jesus's words in red. If you want to know what God is like, read what Jesus was like and what He said. Many women in the bible were of critical importance. How did Jesus treat women? A lot of the bible lumps men and women together as "men". You are no less important than I am, in Gods eyes.