Panel Alignment-Is it Fair to "Cheat"?

The doors should be aligned with the quarter panel, and the rocket panel. Then the fender aligns to the door. Are you sure that you can't adjust the fender? You can slot the holes on the fender to get more adjustment. If it is a replacement fender, plan on modifications. I do whatever I can to get the best panel alignment. It makes the car. I have sanded the door and fender gaps, and others, I had to weld up the gap, due to being too wide.