Ive was empathizing with you...Sticking up for a fellow Bro, and the information above would have been NICE to know ahead of time.... I almost feel like I was set up.
You've made it sound like you think his wife's opinions and preferences only matter because she was in a serious wreck. Because…uh…because fellow bro and stuff, or something. And besides, you were, uh, you were just…joking! Being social and stuff!
Dude: when you find yourself in ѕhit up to your ears, stop digging, eh!