HELP I need a reliable used car

How often will you need to tow or haul stuff? If it’s the odd time each year, rent a truck for that. Why pay that premium in higher fuel costs and parking a truck in grocery store parking lots when it’s only needed a few times a year? Heck, even paying for stuff to be delivered the odd time (soil, sod or whatever else you might need if you own a house) will be cheaper than driving a truck around all year for the odd time you ‘need it’.

Do you have a family? How big a vehicle do you need? As others have suggested, consider an import like a Toyota or a Honda. Civic/Corolla if it’s just you or a Camry/Accord if you have a family. Very reliable cars that will eat up the annual miles with generally normal maintenance of oil and brake pads. Perhaps the odd O2 sender and CV joints which is nothing over many years of ownership.

What was the thought process behind buying the VW and what year did you buy it?
I do have a family. We also have a Toyota sienna van which fits all eight of us. The thought with the Volkswagen was a diesel would last a lot longer, manual because I drive a lot of mountain roads and that was easier to use and although the golf is a smaller car it actually fit me well since I’m 6’2”I sat in a few other cars and they just didn’t feel like i fit very well for the amount of driving and the amount of time I’m going to be in the car.