Respectfully request advice as newly divorced dad

They always have a plan,and it starts with complaining to someone other than you..and on and on...remember now its about you and your daughter, the wife made her choice. Maybe if you talk you can work it out,usually there is no communication and the woman does something like this because the feel they have to. Working it out comes down to if you care enough to. if she didn't cheat etc, whats the issue right now? all she did was run up some bills you didn't know about...its only $$$ don't let anger get the best of you. When you bring a lawyer in there is no working it out, that is the last move of the relationship IMO.