this right here, can save a huge can of worms
what is the proper and respectful way to treat the body of your loved ones?
making that decision for the ones left behind saves a ton of debates
i remember we had this discussion several years ago when my father in law died
i had a dissenting opinion but none of us knew his preference
i can only imagine the peace of mind you can afford your loved ones by telling them "this is what i want"