How to remove connectors from bulkhead

If you simply search for photos online of the terminals you can see what needs to be. A tiny screwdriver to release the tang
On the male end, the retainer is the "finger" at the lower right in this photo

Trying to remove my fusible link now - 73 Dart Sport 340. When you say release the tang, do you mean press it in toward the other side? Don't want to screw up the housing.