360/410 Stroker Questions

Greetings. I'm putting together a 360-based stroker engine with a Scat kit (cast crank, I-beam rods, KB hypers) for street use & I hope y'all can help me with some questions:
1. What is acceptable deck height variation from cylinder to cylinder? What have y'all seen in your builds?
2. What is maximum acceptable rod side play for this combo? Various manual/books give .014 to .017. If it matters, I'm using a Melling HV pump. Thanks.