source for black suede dash paint in a spay can

I believe this is the Sheen you are looking for:
Krylon 1613 Semi Flat Black

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Not semi-gloss and not chaulky flat black, in between.

Semi-Flat black, one of my favorites for black interior trim pieces. Dries fast too, quick to handle, unlike Ace Hardware semi-gloss aerosol paints that take a long time to dry and remain sticky.