Starter relay keeps going bad

Hmm, well I cleaned up all the grounds and still nothing. I ordered a new relay anyway, but I'm gonna have auto zone test my starter and see where that takes me. I decided to start my car with a little screwdriver action to the starter since it hadn't been driven in a while and found that now my coolant leaks. Good times! lol. I was worried that I messed up putting in my new exhaust manifold gasket but it was smoking from all the coolant leaking from the hose while driving I think. The hose looked pretty bad. Should be an easy fix to just replace it

Anyways, thanks yall for the help. I appreciate it!