headlight delay relay location?

I don't have my book in front of me. It's at the shop and I'm at home for lunch. I'll be back at the shop in a while and can look.
If you have the H/L on buzzer option I think that is before the dimmer switch and should not matter if lights are on high or low beams, I think.
Your dimmer switch could be defective even if new.
i think i pitched the old one, have to check. pretty cold today, think i'll wait till tomorow to do any more troubleshooting.