I’m shattered emotionally....

we live rural now but did live in a subdivision at one time and we had a female cat.After about 3 years my wifes' flower gardens wouldn't grow anything and were filled with the neighbourhood cats urine and fecies
We had to constantly clean our basement windows and doors from the Toms marking their territory.And does it stink!
Don't even get me going about them killing the bluebirds.