No spark

Not if what you told me is true. You say you jumper up at the relay it won't crank. That seems to indicate the solenoid wire is bad, or that the big stud on the relay is losing power. When jumpering those terminals, the relay is doing nothing, so it should crank, and you say it is not. Tell you what. When you get home, you get a multimeter and or test light ready and a jumper cable or at least a length of about no 14 or larger wire. Then PM me your phone no and we'll get on the phone

You MIGHT even have the starter relay wired wrong. Can you post a photo?