Question abt my new Bilstein dampers. (shocks)

Well guys I tried all the above advice except for the hot water part.
Still no go. With almost a tenth of an inch difference in bushing hole, it just wont go on. At least for me.
The lower bushing on the shock fits just fine on the upper stud.
I know some of you said they look right, but you can see in pics, they are very different sizes.
So, now Im stuck until I can talk to people (Dan) at P-S-T.
They have always been helpful.
Well, I still have stuff to do to finish front suspension.