Help me stop the windshield wipers coming on at 80mph

I'd think the diagnosis should start with someone looking underneath at the linkage while another person gently tries to lift the wiper arms up.
If the linkage moves the shaft of the driving crank, then you've narrowed the issue down to the motor and output gear. Then identify which type of motor is on the car.
If it doesn't move the motor assembly's output shaft, then see where in the linkage its slipping.

thanks, I will try that and see where I'm at.