Stop in for a cup of coffee

Estates suck. My dad had his all in order so it was easy. Now my sister died around 5 years ago and just found out last year because her husband died and somehow thje police notified my cousin in VA! WTF right? Told my brother to go and do what he has to to administer the estate, you live 10 miles away, just me and him left. Wont even try to do it. I am just to far to deal with it. State will take it. Sucks she had all the family pictures I wanted.