Spark plugs. Why is it so hard?

Which is exactly why these plugs were developed. Because the ignition system was so weak you get misfires. The benefit of longer life was a byproduct of that plug development. The correct answer is get the best ignition system you can find. And use a precious metal electrode plug if you don’t want to change your plugs very often and you don’t mind a lighter wallet. And at that none of this addresses the issue of a copper electrode plug causing ionization to occur easier than other electrode types. Even the engineers can’t agree on that.

Yep - copper is a relic of a bygone era.

Even if copper ionizes the same (it doesn't, due to inherent design constraints which limit minimum electrode size to bigger than it needs to be), it won't last long enough to matter since the electrode will round off rapidly with anything but a stock or low powered ignition.