Best weapon for Concealed Carry advise

If you're are proficient with the weapon, no need to chamber a round and if your not proficient with your weapon, you may as well leave it home, so someone doesn't stick it up your *** while you're fumbling with it.
Everyone thinks they're John Wayne until the **** hits the fan.

Thank You.. Precisely the reason I plan on more practice and instruction before I make the final decision.