Reassembly

The torsion bar installs dead last. Follow the instructions you were given instead of making up your own and you'll succeed.

Lower control arm and strut rod have to kind install "together". There is no way to get the strut rod in if you install everything like you have there. Assemble and install the control arm and strut rod as a unit, like was said. Install the strut rod into the control arm leaving the attaching bolt loose so you can move things around. Then install the control arm and strut rod as an assembly.