OK I've had enough Kahr .40

What I want is small lightweight and DA only, meaning, no safety if possible. That lets out 1911 or any other SA pistol I guess it doesn't have to be a .40, a 9 is ok

I still have the Browning BDM but it's too big and heavy

The Kahr would have been fine if it was reliable, but I've lost confidence in it
Look at the NAA Guardian.

NAA-380GUARDIAN