OK I've had enough Kahr .40

CZ 75 D compact.

It is a decocker version of the 75 compact. now called the 75D PRC and the 75 P-01 is the pic rail version. There is also standard safety version. The P-01 is the NATO approved and carried by more police around the world than any other gun.

Best thing you could do is go to a range that rents different guns and shoot them to see what you like and fits you the best.