People getting defensive at car shows!

First, I feel all guys in the car culture should be accepting of each other. I've had hot rods and custom cars for 40 years, I don't car show I feel that original and restored to original are very important to our culture it allows the guys who would normally be like stamp collectors to hang out with the guys that their mothers wouldn't let them hang out with in high school because they had to go to band practice. Love each and everyone of you,,, Jim