Am I being rude?

Either I'm unknowingly a lone wolf, kinda, or people just suck *** around here.
At the most there were 3 people that would come around. The rest... reclusive...or moved far away from California .

As I've said many times...my car is more loyal and dependable than a lot of people that have been in my life.
I can swing up for a few hours but would have to really dial in a time. I usually have a window while the kids are at school and the when the MIL doesn't have Dr's appointments. Are you working regular hours?