Am I being rude?

Well I’m a rude one. Yesterday was my first trip to the track in 13 months. New engine (with possible issues) new transmission, new converter, new carb. I knew Pat that has the Demon wanted to see me real bad so I told her I was working on the car all week, but not that Matt and I were going racing. When I’m setting up a fresh combo I am 110% concentrated on my car and can’t be chit chatting to someone. Even if things went right yesterday I would have gotten two passes so time is a premium.