What to do with people who back out deals

I don't know your conversations. But I'm betting there is the other side of the story also. I would point out, that in your statement alone.

blewbyoutobad said

they send you there Pay Pal then hours later

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You seem to have taken your time "hours" to make the payment. Maybe, just maybe he felt like, within your conversations, you were going to make a more immediate payment. When you didn't. He sold it to someone else.

But, correct, not cool.