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You have our deepest sympathy. That's just awful. I'm always telling Kitty "God forbid something happens to us, nobody will find us foe weeks" and it's true. I have a sister in Macon. 30 minutes away. Just saw her yesterday for Thanksgiving. But if I don't call her, it'll be six months before I hear from her......maybe more. And God help them if they ever had to ride out HERE. I'd never hear the end of it. But she makes close to six figures a year as a nurse practitioner and he's a Golden Flake cookie guy. Kitty and I on social security, barely getting by. We made the trip yesterday there, because my sister wanted it THERE and here we are, 1/4 tank of gas left in Kitty's car and 16 dollars in the bank till next Friday. LOL

But as I said, nobody and I mean NOBODY ever comes by, calls, or anything.......well......I take that back. Someone from THIS VERY FORUM calls more than my own family. @Stephen Hotz. I actually hear from him a good little bit. Then, Del (@67Dart273) calls some too, but they both call more than family or friends that live less than 50 miles away.

We live 500 feet off the road for a good reason, but we'd never mind visits from friends.....but never get any. I tell Kitty we're the biggest assholes in the world must be all the time. I guess we are. LOL
Your not a A-hole Rusty and you, me or we cant help people who think only of themselves.....My wife's sister and your sister in law sound alike...My wife has been to hell and back, chemo, so many surgeries I lost count and her sister would be down this way once a month to visit mom and would never stop by for 15 minutes to visit my wife, forget about a phone call, im talking ten years now,,,always all about her
Kitty you me, my wife could talk about this over coffee for hours but whats the sense.
You and I may not agree about a lot of **** but damm it I wish I lived nearby you
Tell the missus I have a Kitty also, only ten but that kid puts smile on my face every time I see her
Be well and thanks