After valve adjustment stall issues.

In decades of engine building, I haver never seen a 0.010" spread [ 0.010 int, 0.020 exh ] in valve lash for a street engine. Usually 0.004" at most. If the correct lash is actually 0.020" [ likely ] for the intake, then your comment about the feeling of extra load on the engine makes sense. The tighter lash increases duration, & at low rpms [ lugging ] that often reduces torque, making the engine feel sluggish.
You nailed it man,
I have had very good results with .013/.020. The low-rpm torque increase was very obvious, and significantly more than I had anticipated. Increasing the exhaust to .023 did not make as dramatic, an improvement, but it was noticeable.
I was after fuel-economy tho, lol. So cylinder pressure is what I was looking for. I think I got 5psi outta that deal, hard to remember cuz that was 1994.