Why so many gloom and doomers on this site

I've seen some cheeks in walmart...its a spandex show of which gal can fit the most *** in her tights mostly. You need to have a lightening fast turn away in case the *** is like a chunky bag of vomit and chopped potatoes though... or its suffocation nightmares for weeks.
Walmart is a big store, I avoid the chunky isle and keep my eyes staring right. focused.