Bout two months on the spay. It's personal preference on food. We use a dry food called 4Health from Tractor Supply. Totally grain free and 100% meat based. It's a little more costly than the mainstream store brands, but it's much better for them. They actually eat less, because it fills them up more, so it's probably about breakin even. Get her a litter box and chunk her in it every now and then. She'll train herself.