Don't do this to your children

In my mothers case, the house is paid off but, nursing home costs $4200 a month, it gobbles up the value of the house .. fast , and for her to go on title 19, she has to have zero assets, they only give you a few years of grace period to do that ..in most cases its 5 years .. anything less than that, they just come back and tell you to give them the money, if you quickly pass away its not such a big deal ( well, to you it is ) .. the state will just take what ever your own, kids get zero