Stop in for a cup of coffee

"Old" post I know but I find the P365 fits my hands perfectly and yeah, I read those reviews of folks who didn't like the feel, even to the point of affecting accuracy. I held this gun in my hand before buying of course, felt and feels great. I was searching for one I could conceal but would also have stopping power when it was a nightstand buddy. I don't know that you can find a gun with a 10 and 1 capacity that is this small and undetectable. HOWEVER, I do not like that it doesn't have a safety. So.....I'm looking into other options to carry with (suggestions please- needs to have a safety). The one thing that the critics pointed out concerning the first generation of this weapon was that is wouldn't always fire and when that occured it could be fired upside down. Glad SIG addressed that.
Hard finding one that does it all well.
For the nightstand could go .38 or .357 revolver with 4" barrel, or a 1911 or 92 if you prefer pistol with safety.