how long do YOU wait

I inquired about a part on here a few weeks ago

As luck would have it, it was on the last day of spring break
the guy got me a shipping quote that evening (i believe) but i got up early the next morning and started home
i guess a day or so was too much for this gent to wait for me, and he started spamming me with "hurry up" PMs and when i woke up the next day (so this is day 2 after the quote) i had a PM waiting telling me he wont ever do business with me ever again
ever

fine, i went out and bought the same part, brand new, from a reputable vendor at a lower price