how long do YOU wait

on a person that has been advised about shipping, has read/seen your usps quote and you have someone else ready to buy?
Just send a message saying get back to me in 48 hours or 24 hours whatever you decide or I'm selling it to so and so.

If it's a well regarded member...wait a little longer. **** happens, life is unpredictable and distracting...then the people in the chain that hold things up...ugh..