I think they can advise about using their services with your money....wire 10k to a stranger? As a bank manager I would sit you down too and ask very carefully if you knew the ramifications of doing this and how this could lead to a complete loss of your money with no recourse, including loss of all protections that 'my' bank can offer and what you pay for in your fees...You'll find another, and if it's that close to come and get it, I'd try and show up with the money next time (actually id have the money in the car with the friend offsite, ready for the AOK to come with it. Dont get suckered into a jacking!) onsite to at least check out the condition of car. Heard too many stories of all the pics were the right side of the car and the left side rode a pole or the transmission is held in by baling wire.
