Anyone lay their own concrete?

Yeah, sand is very, very good. I have clay where my pole barn is. Horrible stuff. The guy that did mine talked me into using fiberglass stuff and no rebar. I think it was a big mistake for me. But for you, being in sand it might work out just fine.
If you are just removing soil, you should be fine to pour, but if you have to add fill, you need to rent a compacter. Sand also needs to be compacted, if nothing else, use water. Concrete needs to dry slow to add strength. That is one reason for the plastic, the other is a vapor barrier, if you are going to enclose the slab with sides and roof. Water the concrete several times to slow down the cure for about 4 days. We must do our concrete here in Florida differently then what is custom in your area because we always use 6" X 6" mesh.