My wife HATES my car.

I worked with a young guy that one day was talking about his "hot" girlfriend. The son of a row crop farmer.
I told him my advice was simple. Forget hot. Find the daughter of a rancher that had no sons and the daughter was dad's help. IF she helped dad pull calves, vax, dehorn, worn, run the baler, help fix fence, loved old cars/pickups!!!_, and her nails had NO polish and she took regular bathes....there's your HOT woman!!!!

I told my kids that the only thing to look for was "Were they nice?" If they are not nice, nothing else matters in the long run.