Considering relocating to Texas

That is very true. I currently make significantly less than the industry median due to working at a small startup company; there was a promise of "oh you'll make lots of money when we start selling our product!" but I don't see that realistically happening for a couple more years and I can't keep living this way for that long. There are a few interesting positions I found with much better pay in northern CO but then there's still the issue, I just really don't want to live in Colorado any more for the other reasons I mentioned earlier.

Sounds like the current job is a great catalyst for a big move to somewhere you'll ultimately be happier. Good for you for being able to recognize and accept that. A lot of people just get stuck in the monotony of day to day life without actually stepping out on limb and making the necessary change. I wish you luck, but I don't think you'll need it. I only ask that you keep us posted on what you decide to do.

Have you looked into Tennessee? I've had a handful of friends and colleagues relocate out there and they love it. Not sure about the diversity aspect out there though.