Thanks guys, feeling better now just having one of those days I guess.
Of course, I meant that more like it's not a good idea to try to bring someone else into my life without being able to take care of myself first.
It's more like $3500 a month after taxes, 60k I mentioned is gross pay. 1500 for rent, 750 for bills, 6-700 for food, a few hundred for gas, and extra less-regular expenses like a dentist bill, car repairs/maintenance, lawn care supplies, parking ticket, pet supplies etc it adds up fast.
