Trying to weld, I’m terrible!

I've also never been able to use weld thru primer on the backside of anything I've been welding. I can watch people on youtube use it all day long but it is like straight up weld repellant when I try to use it. My welder acts as if it's trying to weld through motor oil if there is weld thru primer on the backside.
The weld through primers are not all created equally. I had really crappy luck with the Napa brand zinc weld-thru. But much better with a copper-based one from another manufacture, as well as the zinc type from another manufacture. It’s not cheap but you could try a different type.